Combine laser-focused trauma healing with God's healing...
...and watch how fast your love life transforms.
Are you tired of being tired, of always chasing love and success and falling short?
Are you dreaming of connecting deeply with your spouse or your future spouse, even if there's been betrayal or breakups?
Are you ready to feel fully loved, unconditionally, just for who you are?
Want to know how to have a wonder-full relationship with your loving partner?
What would it mean for you to feel safe and loved, fully seen, held, respected, and appreciated by your partner?
...Sooner than you ever thought possible?
Heal the ROOT
...of betrayals, sadness, resentment, self-sabotage, or sex addictions derailing your relationships, job, parenthood, energy, and purpose.
- Break negative cycles, so you have the confidence to find and/or develop the partnership of your dreams.
- Be fully present, faithful, and emotionally available for your spouse and children, instead of only giving them the leftovers of your emotional capacity.
Get rid of hidden fear and insecurity.
The effects of trauma wounding can create distance and tension in a relationship.
Your subconscious fears of abandonment or rejection create trust issues, that in turn cause withdrawal and communication problems, which are picked up by your children and spouse.
Your healing helps you build a stronger, more secure and loving connection with your partner and your kids that is rooted in mutual respect, understanding, and unconditional love.
Seal and strengthen
...your relationship with God, so He can grant you what you've been praying for and much more.
Learn to listen for and follow His master plan for you, including for your ultimate romantic partnership and parenthood, even with the partner you already have, even if that seems impossible.
Healing your wounds allows you to experience a more intimate and fulfilling spiritual life, aligning your heart with God’s purpose for you.
Become a leader
...by modeling healthy emotional behavior for your children to inherit and others to follow. Healing your trauma wounding enables you to:
- show them how to face challenges with faith and resilience.
- equip yourself with the emotional and spiritual strength needed to face future challenges in your family, faith, and personal growth.
Most importantly, healing your trauma wounding is the way to honor God, recognizing that your well-being is important to Him.
By taking steps to heal, you're caring for the body, mind, and spirit
that God has entrusted to you.
"Above all else, guard your heart for it is the wellspring of life."
~ Proverbs 4:23
Listen, I get it.
Nobody wants to
"heal their trauma."
But your deeply hidden, unhealed trauma wounding is unquestionably holding you back from having a safe, loving, lasting relationship,
and from experiencing
longterm peace and joy.
In one free session with me I can reveal how this is true for you, and give you healing, actionable steps, and a ton of hope.
It's CRITICAL that you don't put this off any longer.
Because guess what?
"Gross things grow in dark places."
~ Haley Teixeira, Thriving Relationships For His Kingdom podcast
I CAN TELL YOU THAT IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU DATE OR HOW MANY MARRIAGE THERAPY STRATEGIES YOU TRY,
If your trauma wounding stays buried and unhealed without the holy intervention of Jesus, you’re wide open to the devil preying on it, and he will gladly keep you isolated from God, looping in your negative patterns. Sometimes with destructive people who often seem charming and harmless at first.
This means you are living in sin.
And God extends common grace to all sinners… but only for so long.
We never know for how long. I remember the day my common grace ran out, at the end of a bitter, ungodly, sinful relationship with a grandiose narcissist, close to being evicted as a single mom with two kids, my finances and health in ruin, my car broken down and my job lost, my spirit utterly crushed.
At that moment, the Holy Spirit finally called me to repent and come to Christ on my knees. To ASK for the trauma wound healing I desperately needed. To show me the CONNECTIONS between my endlessly looping patterns and my past. (Work I'd been doing with myself and clients,
but not understanding that it's Jesus who actually needs to do the healing).
OF COURSE, JESUS WELCOMED ME HOME, THE WAY THE PRODIGAL SON WAS WELCOMED, AND THE WAY YOU WOULD BE WELCOMED.
He healed and remade my heart faster than I ever thought possible.
And God provided for us instantly and helped me rebuild my wrecked home and finances in four months flat.
He also helped me heal my very broken relationship with the man He had saved just for me, who loves me with an unconditional grace I'd never felt from anyone but Jesus, and who proposed to me just months later.
But... I can’t stand the thought of you getting all the way to that desolate point, before getting help.
Let's set you up for life in a relationship and household that is the SAFE, sweet haven you've always been dreaming of ~ and, like my own story, it may even be the faltering one you're already in.
Ready to be healed and stay closer to God and your partner?
Introducing my 3-month, privately coached trauma healing program
for individuals or couples:
Healed and Sealed
If you've tried everything (or don't have time or energy to try everything),
it's time to combine your trauma healing with God's healing.
It is my experience, and my firm belief, that one cannot effectively heal without two parts:
1. effectively pinpointing your trauma patterns / accepting personal responsibility
AS WELL AS
2. accepting God's gracious intervention and protection.
My approach uses both parts. And it's served in laser-focused sessions that are easy to digest.
"Put on the whole armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil."
~ Paul to the Ephesians 6:11
Together, with God's grace, I'm going to break down for you how to:
- Clearly connect the dots between your trauma and your train wrecks;
- Protect yourself and your loved ones from the attacks of the enemy;
- Teach your wounded inner child that your feelings and your past are actually harmless, and how to extract critically helpful, healing information from them;
- Connect deeply with Jesus to gain a whole new confidence knowing beyond a shadow of doubt that your place in the Kingdom of God is SEALED;
- Receive His loving protection and healing, even if you have trouble receiving love now;
- Forgive even your worst enemies and ditch even your worst habits OVERNIGHT;
- Enjoy the deeply loving, safe, lasting Christian marriage and parenthood you’ve always wanted;
- And STOP passing along your generational trauma any longer! You can heal your family line NOW.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
~ Jeremiah 29:11
I'm not your average trauma healer. And neither is Jesus. We'll do all this WITHOUT:
- Settling for just collecting coping “tools," not really curing the heart of why your wounding makes you keep looping in the same destructive patterns with the same kinds of people.
- Rehashing and reliving the whole story of your trauma events just to get to the critical parts that need to be decoded and released.
- Thinking you have to heal all of your trauma wounding before you can have a healthy relationship with your partner or Jesus.
- Using new age "healing" or "divination" tactics, including "channeling spirits" that make your wounding worse because it's creating contracts with demons or demonically-influenced people.
TO BE CLEAR, MY PROGRAM IS NOT:
- Confusing Christian counseling that leaves out the CRITICAL part about the spiritual battle we’re all in, that Satan preys on your wounding to keep you stuck in your patterns, isolated from loved ones and separated from God.
- Months of therapy that omits powerful intercessory prayer to Jesus, which can literally heal you in seconds.
- Idolatrous, satanic dating advice like “special person,”“soulmate,” or “twin flame” nonsense that God hates and that keeps you bound to Satan’s influence. (Let me tell you, I used to believe in all of that and I KNOW exactly what makes one fall for it! I want to free you from this bondage so you may recognize and fully receive the one God has
for you.)
- Hour-long sessions that deplete you emotionally and leave you overwhelmed with too much information. We do short, laser-focused sessions without meandering through the past.
- Limiting you to talking with me just once a week - you have unlimited access to my calendar!
No more train-wreck, drama-filled, uncertain relationships.
No more relationship-stacking, no more "love hoarding."
No more frustrating loneliness.
It's time to heal your wounding with which the enemy is controlling you and destroying your relationships.
Take away his foothold in you and become immune to his attacks and those of people under his influence!
Enjoy the confidence and freedom to have the wonder-full intimate relationship you've always dreamed of.
Relax into this unique healing space.
We’ve got you covered.
This is a loving and professionally-guided healing space held for you. Over a span of three months, you have access to unlimited* individual, 30-minute laser coaching sessions with me or a highly qualified member of my team. I've honed my laser trauma coaching process in a private research project with over 400 people ages 18-60, including couples.
No more meandering for an hour, wondering if you're going to remember everything we went over. Our 30-minute laser sessions make everyone show up ultra prepared and get the most out of our time together.
- In a few minutes, I can discern how you were treated in your past and what it's been doing to your relationships, your job, or wherever you are feeling lack, frustration, or confusion.
- I can put into helpful context what you're telling me and cut to the heart of what will best serve you to try immediately.
- I can work with you on the spot to pinpoint the source of your emotional trigger and how to feel through it safely to the other side, often in just a few tender minutes.
- I can help you and your loved one understand each other better and help you communicate clearer and more lovingly, starting that day.
- I can discern whether you have a demon spirit hanging on (very common), causing your chaos and confusion, or whether your challenge is from your emotional triggers, and I will teach you how to overcome both.
- I can teach you simple steps to do all of the above for yourself, with the constant help of Jesus.
Put yourself on my coaching calendar anytime.
*Your affordable one-time fee covers unlimited one-to-one or couples coaching for three (3) months. Laser coaching sessions help us focus quickly on present issues and keep you moving forward in your goals.
Schedule your 30-minute laser-focused sessions (60 minutes for couples) at your convenience to help you move forward quickly. Time slots are available throughout the week, including evening hours and Saturdays.
- Occasionally we will take 45 minutes or more, if needed, to be sure your session is fully resolved.
- Typed notes from each session will be sent to you afterward.
- Short, customized homework will be given so you know exactly what to do before our next session to work toward your goals.
You have been called by God since before He formed you in the womb (Jeremiah 1:5). It’s totally okay if you have not been a really "active" Christian, or if you are just coming home to Him now. It is well-documented in the Bible that He welcomes you with open arms like the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32).
God’s perfect son, Jesus, was sent to be our master healer. He is God incarnate. As such, He can accelerate your healing, mend your broken heart, help you heal physically, release you from addictions, drive out any demons, and clear your life of destructive people and distractions at an astonishing rate.
After only 1 or 2 prayerful sessions of connecting the dots between their trauma and their addictions, I have had two male clients completely healed of porn addictions overnight, never to return to it. I've helped heal betrayal wounds, abandonments wounds, rejection wounds, and more, in 3 months or less.
The invitation is for you to approach Jesus with a humble heart, begin your inner work like that outlined above, and ask Him to help you. He may even accelerate the process before you've done much of your own healing work.
My Guarantee to You
Attend your 1-1 sessions at least once a week (on average) for your entire three-month term, follow my personalized guidance for you (based on psychology and the Bible), and complete all your homework assignments before each session. If you don't see a significant, positive change in your life, meeting at least some of your personal goals we'll set together, I'll refund every penny you paid.
A few happy clients from my groups and private coaching...
“Robin's insightful approach allowed me to explore and validate my negative feelings rooted in childhood experiences, alleviating a significant amount of pressure. The tools she provided me with feel tailored to my circumstances & create a clear pathway to successfully navigating the stress and anxiety in my daily life. With this newfound self-understanding, I look forward to applying these valuable tips to real-life situations. Originally planning for just one session, I am now certain that I will reach out to Robin again..”
Nancy, Behavioral Health Worker
“Robin is an amazing coach! Before I started, I was at a point where I feeling out of touch with my dreams and passions in life. Since I have been working with Robin, I have felt renewed confidence and encouragement. The course modules have been very effective at helping me realign with my purpose... Knowing my purpose has helped me know how I can better serve others through my gifts. Our group meetings offer a safe space where we can share and offer support with like-minded people. I also enjoy working with Robin in our one on one meetings. She is full of love, wisdom, and creative energy. I look forward to developing my business ideas with her coaching. I highly recommend working with Robin! "
Elsa, Artist & Home Caregiver
"What I have really valued the most... is the weekly group coaching calls. The intimacy of the group means we each get time to talk about how things are going for us in terms of realising our life purpose. It has given me immense clarity in my work to embrace my purpose...
And the people in the group are so supportive. We cheer each other on, promote each other's endeavors, and send helpful resources to each other throughout the week. It is so great being part of a community where Robin comforts us with her loving presence, if we become discouraged.
Robin’s energy is so authentic and genuine that I genuinely look forward to the weekly calls. I am impressed with how much she knows. I have felt so supported, in a gentle, empathic way that is hard to find in other programs. You can really feel her love and care coming through.”
Santou, Grief Counselor
“My ability to listen more effectively and speak more compassionately has grown immensely since beginning my discussions with Robin. This has improved my relationship with my lover beyond measure! As a bonus, my professional interactions with my peers and my clients have brought returns in value far beyond the cost of these therapeutic sessions. Robin's friendly communication style made it easy to open up to her with sensitive issues, as she's also very respectful and clearly values integrity, privacy, and authenticity. This enabled me to keep our discussions real and raw, while she kept them relevant and actionable.”
Michael, Economic Advisor
“Robin absolutely brings perspectives into self awareness that will have lasting, positive results. From day 1, she layed a foundation to stand on about the human psyche that left me with a much better understanding and a wanting to learn more. Robin’s gift is bringing you out of your inner head and aptly guiding you to go deep within yourself and discover where habits, behaviors and thoughts REALLY stem from. And not just deal with it but truly heal. And with this new knowledge, I can confidently show up in my life from the workplace to my family life and own it! Work with Robin, she will transform you too.”
Chris, Mechanic
"It helped me have better clarity of having (my Facebook) group, looking forward to creating the group and putting people in it. In the 3 months vision I was moved to the point where I’m already there, like I’m already doing it, living with the love of my life, getting married, living the calling that God wants me to to serve people, and really earning. My inspired action 40% self love, 40% my calling to really serve, 30% of time to establish how to really monetize and live that life I declared earlier.”
Mel, Online Coach
“Going from where I was this morning, replaying some traumatic events in my life that recently happened, to this now moment, I don’t know what you did, but I feel transformed… I was somehow able to jump into a timeline three months from now and literally imagine what my end result is going to be. And imagining that, it gave me the confirmation I needed… okay, you know what, I can do this, I can break free from my parents, I can break free from my traumas, I can break free from my stories. In my eleven years of healing, I’ve never experienced that before on a call… Never has it …felt like it was going to be a lasting change because in the back of may mind I’m like okay, I’m feeling this now but my mind and ego are like yeah but you’re going to spiral back down. I don’t feel that battle between my mind, ego and heart anymore…. My heart is willing to do whatever it took, but my mind and ego are like wait a sec, you’ve tried that before and look where it got you, it got taken away so what’s the point of even trying anymore.
I don’t feel that anymore.”
Michael A., Affiliate Marketer
“Robin is nothing short of amazing. One valuable lesson I learned from working with Robin... I had to learn to really love myself, instead of only expecting my partner to love me the way I wanted to be loved..... Because I really did not know how to love me.... She also helped me really understand and further develop myself confidence. I am now able to have a more heartfelt, successful conversation with my partner. ...Sometimes difficult things have to be talked about, and I realize it's coming from love. Not a judgment, not a criticism, not a complaint but pure love because he wants what's best for me and I want what's best for him. My relationship is so much better after working with Robin. I am so grateful.”
Jean V., Occupational Therapist
“Robin's a fearless genius. Not that she's immune to fear it's that she's done the hard work to overcome her shadow side; and it's not that she was born a genius necessarily, but more that she's learned how to step INTO her genius and she can help you do the same. Bring THAT to your current or next relationship and you'll have a much lighter and brighter future ahead. She's helped me in so many ways that have more to do with my relationship with my SELF, so that my relationships both romantic and platonic have been endlessly more easy & fruitful. Best decision you could make is to work with Robin - highly recommended.”
Schroeder N., Voice Coach
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